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It Is All I Ever Wanted To Say.... :)


To All The People....

Who Have Got Their Guy/Girl...
And Doesnot Know How To Keep Up Their Magic :)

Soo....
Finally Dispelling all Uncertainties... Worries... And Fulfilling Your cherished dreams... You get Your soulmate...

Dedicated to my Geek Friend... Prem Bharath.. This One Is Definetly For You Dude :)

Congratulations!!! :) :)
(P:S U Donno How Lucky U Are !!! ;) )

So Next The Biggest Thing For Every guy is... How Do I Prove that When I Promised her.. I Meant it.... When I said That She Would Be Happy I Meant That I Had Jubilance In Store For her... In My Heart In My Life.... :)

1.In The Initial stages Of your Commitment, It Wouldn't be a big problem... You guys are new to each other... and are ready to experiment your relation... So You talk and chat about each others intrest, life, family.. And What Not?!
( Remember guys... If You Are Not Meant To Be Together, Girls Find It Out At This Stage.... :) Thus Most Break-ups Happen At This Stage )

2. The Next thing... Getting actually close.. complementing each other... Calling each other by cute names... the increased concern of the girl... a million times saying I Love You... lol :D

3.Hanging out with your girl... (remember if she is ur gf... introduce her as gf only... especially to other girls... otherwise await hell that day) And Spending time On Long drives... Travelling alone.... loving nature together.....

4.By now, U would've had an idea of what she likes and what she doesnt... A Small fights One or two, Might Have even happened....
Remember to note how your girl reacts after u apologise and how she is without you.. during a fight and even before and after that..... :) (Ill say later how 2 interpret)

5.And Then U Guys How much ever Perfect you may be... End Up Making A Big Mistake...
Generally, One Of These:
# U Werent really angry... but under some emotional swing did say something very bad... And end up hurting her....

#You ended up being caught by their parents in public... You Denied knowing her...

#Many girls are not comfy with hugs and holdings.. When She ws frank, You Did not like...

#She suddenly feels that this is not meant to be.. You guys are trying hard to make it happen, its not happening naturally....

# She Feels Insecure, Jealous, Or really possesive....

# She Gets a Complex... Inferiority or superiority... whatever!!!!

#You were so Involved in love that You forgot to take care of profession....

#She feels she can never satisfy you... Or keep You Happy!

#You Spoke Bad About her...She Came To Know About it... And Was Shattered...
( P:S Mostly when you guys end up in gangs and start discussiong abt ur respective girls... U Can Neither Support Your girl.. You will Be Called as a love-dog by rest of guys... nor leave her... you will be doing wrong to her that way... generally avoid discussions to be safe... )

#Or Simply She Is Bored! Lolzz

Soo....

The Magic In Your relation is gone obviously!!!!

Remember (I Never believed so myself... Until recently ) In true Love Sparks Fly.. Lol..

So How Do You Keep Your love story uptight....??

In A Way .. Words would help a lot... when it comes to girl... they never forget what you spoke and how you made them feel...
#Rekindle the spirit... tell her how you felt when you first touched her.. when you first met her... "when the first time i saw/did......"this Phrase always helps...
#tell her how good she is... and why she is special....
# take her out without letting her know abt the plan...
# When she is sobbing continuously and telling u to leave her for good... Jus Give her a Tight hug...
# when she is upset on account of your act, say mea things about yourself... she will agree with the first, hear the second and obviously stop the third..lol
#Once In A While When She Least Expects Give her gifts And Visits....
#talk about everything btw... many people don't do this.. Just Flirting And Moving around together... is Not Love... And You Are not A Kid...

Remember your girl friend isn't a shiny new toy, so that you can show around to people proudly... Yeah, You CAn do That.... definetly not a bad idea.. But don't make her feel like a thing... Tell Her What Your World is... Describe your day.. The people you meet.. The Things You Do... The Things You Liked... The Things You did not like...
Like describe a sunset or chirping of birds.. Aww Percy I Miss You... I Really Do :(
Sigh... This Is More Than Enough Even If You Don't Flirt!!!!!!!! She Must Feel That She Is A Part Of Your World... Never forget to do this... In the Long Run, She Would Feel Awesome.. And Naturally She would get reassurance And Faith in you... And She Would get the feeling that no one knows more about her than u :) :)

And Remember only you two know what Is Special amongst you.. Keep The flame alive.. how much ever I Say Only You Can Keep Doing things.. And You Know What Can Be Done Top Keep Your Girl Happy..!!!

Love, Is Just A Part Of Your Life...
She, Is Just A Part Of Your world...
Never ever forget that.... Or else.. You will end up making yourself feel miserable and spread your misery to the girl... :)

Regards,
Messi :)
M Back To Life... :)


I had left writing much about folk psychology....

In Between I Lost faith In Reality Of relations....
But Then Again, I'm Back!!!!!

Jus Wanted This Post Top Be read so making it damn short...
I Have Been Hearing Girls complain alot... Isn't It The Guys Job To Do This???

To All Of Em , With Loads Of Love....

Nothing is pre-written, Whatever is good or wrong depends on only what the people involved think....

U Might Have Your Own Views Of What IS Right And Wrong... But Sometimes You May Have To Cross Your Limits To Hold Your Love....

Remember... How Much Ever Perfect Your Partner Is Gona Be.. There Is Always An Imperfection.... And At Some Point Of Time... They Are Definetly Gonna Hurt You... The Sooner You Learn The Better.... :)

And Finally.....

In A Less Crowded Street You Can Break Your Rules Adjust With The Opposite vehicle and drive on the wrong side of the road... Yet reach safe....
In Life... You Can do Things That You Expect Others To Do.... It's All About Giving More Than Getting..... Adjustment Is Only Between You Two.... Ultimately If You Both Make Sense And Justify Yourselves.... You Need Not Wait For Anyone......

And Finally... Say What Is Happening Only If You Are Ok With All Sorts Of Comments You Get From Others..... Otherwise...
Live....
Dream....
And,
Relish
YOUR OWN WORLD........!!!!!

With Loads Of Love,
Sti :)

What is a personal calling? It is God’s blessing, it is the path that God chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don’t all have the courage to confront our own dream. Why?

There are four obstacles. First, we are told from childhood onwards that everything we want to do is impossible. We grow up with this idea, and as the years accumulate, so too do the layers of prejudice, fear and guilt. There comes a time when our personal calling is so deeply buried in our soul as to be invisible. But it’s still there.

If we have the courage to disinter our dread, we are then faced by the second obstacle:love. We know what we want to do, but are afraid of hurting those around us by abandoning everything in order to pursue our dream. We do not realize that love is just a further impetus, not something that will prevent us going forward, and that those who genuinely wish us well want us to be happy and are prepared to accompany us on that journey.

Once we have accepted that love is a stimulus, we come up against the third obstacle: fear of the defeats we will meet on the path. We who fight for our dream suffer far more when it doesn’t word out, because we cannot fall back on the old excuse, “Oh, well, I didn’t really want it anyway. “We do want it and know that we have staked everything on it and that the path of the personal calling is no easier than any other path, except that our whole heart is in this journey. Then we warriors of light must be prepared to have patience in difficult times and to know that the Universe is conspiring in our favor, even though we may not understand how.

I ask myself: are defeats necessary? Well, necessary or not, they happen. When we first begin fighting for our dream, we have no experience and make many mistakes. The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.

So, why is it so important to live our personal calling if we are only going to suffer more than other people? Because once we have overcome the defeats-and we always do-we are filled with a greater sense of euphoria and confidence. In the silence of our hearts, we know that we are proving ourselves worthy of the miracle of life. Each day, each hour, is part of the good fight. We start to live with enthusiasm and pleasure. Intense, unexpected suffering passes more quickly than suffering that is apparently bearable; the latter goes on for years and, without our noticing, eats away at our soul, until, one day, we are no longer able to free ourselves from the bitterness and it stays with us for the rest of our lives.

Having disinterred our dream, having used the power of love to nurture it and spent many living with the scars, we suddenly notice that what we always wanted is there, waiting for us, perhaps the very next day. Then comes the fourth obstacle: the fear of realizing the dream for which we have been fighting all our lives.

Oscar Wilde said, “Each man kills the thing he loves.” And it’s true. The mere possibility of getting what we want fills the soul of the ordinary person with guilt. We look around at all those who have failed to get what they want and feel that we do not deserve to get what we want either. We forget about all the obstacles we overcame, all the suffering we endured, all the things we had to give up in order to get this far. I have known a lot of people who, when their personal calling was within their grasp, went on to commit a series of stupid mistakes and never reached their goal when it was only a step away.

This is the most dangerous of the obstacles because it has a kind of saintly aura about it: renouncing joy and conquest. But if you believe yourself worthy of the thing you fought so hard to get, then you become an instrument of God, you help the Soul of the World, and you understand why you are here.








Taken from Alchemist By Paulo coelho.....


:) Thanks To Pranav For suggesting Me This :)



There Are Some People In Your Life... Who Make It Through The Test Of Time...
Some People Who Make It Through School To Your College... As Your Best Buddies For Ever....

Its my 50th post..... And its Something That's quite special to me....
And Its My Highest privilege And Dignity... To Write About Five people Whom I Love a Lot.....

My Gang, My Pride..... :) :)


Five people.... The BEST... Words Fail to Describe What They Mean to Mean And How Much Successful They are In Their Wit And Virtue.....

The Engineering Folks.... :D
Sowmya(sow).... Doing Second Year In Meenakshi Engineering College... EEE :)

Priyadharshini(pri)... Doing Second Year In SRM-Valliammai college... E&I :)

Uthra Priya(up).... Again Second Year In Asan Memorial College.... ECE :)

The Docs Arena :D

Athipathi Raj(tap)... Doing Second Year.... Balaji Dental College.... BDS

Last, But Not Least...

Swamiathan(sam)... Right Now In Holidays... lol... Kanyakumari Government Medical College... MBBS... :)


They Are The Five.... Just Five... And We All Flew From The Same Nest... Prince School....


Frankly How we Ended up together Is Still A Mystery To Me... I'm Sure In Life... Six people Cannot Have More Diverse Persoanlities And Views Than Us.. :D
Sam And Pri Studied Together Since 10th... Same Case With Tap And Sow.... I Knew All of Em Barely In 10th ...
In 11b1 Life Begun... Fate Played A Nice Trick... All Of Us ended Up As Classmates In there... Up Joined Us Only in 11th same class....

The Four Of em Knew each other from The start... And Hence They were Together... Up And Sam were(In fact are :D)) Good Friends After A Small Fight (LOLzzzz)

I Was The Last To Join em... I Never Felt Close To them In School.... Tap was My Friends Friend... I Knew pd and sow... Uthra and me did practicals together... Sam was new to me... But In A Way We Got Along....

Things went On fine during those days... Tears Well In My Eyes To Think Of Those Times Which I Badly Miss Right Now...
How We Used To Play In All The Classes... Those Early Morning Chats And Homework Completions... Those Bio record Work Which All Of Us Used To Sit Together And Break Our Heads With..... How At The End Of The Day Mostly We Used To End Up At My Home Or Sows And Talk Talk and Talk... :D

And All 420 jobs... Seriously Tap-Sam.. I Think You Guys Would've Become Engineers If We Girls Didnot show You Answers In All Those Weekly tests Of Maths.... Those Pen Begging In The Middle Of The Classes... :D Those running Commentaries And Eatings In Physics Classes..Those Serious Note Writings in Maths Period... The Lunch Score Updates In Important Cricket Matches... Those Teacher-Turns-Back And We Begin Our Fun In Botany period... Those Hilariously sarcastic Comments Of Our Zoo Chitra mam... Those Che Periods In Which We Did Nothing Except Chatting... Those English Periods In Which we Supressed Our Smiles Fought Back Our Laughters And Had To Stand Up And Speak... :P :D

lol... Please Readers Don't Misunderstand That We Are Useless Gang... All of Us Have Definitive Plans For Future... :D Pri And Her MBA Stuff... And You Know What Sam Now Future plans Na ... I'm Remembering Your 60 Years plan... But People Due To Copy Right Isuues I Can't Speak More Than This... Ll Be Executed... :P

And Yeah... It Is Really Fascinating To Actually Say That We Guys Were More Close After School rather Than During Schooling... Engaluku Padippu Than Mukiyam School Bothu...lol :D

Sama Gang sama Fun... We Used To Pull The Guys Legs With All Girls And Girls Legs With Many Guys... :D So Many Discussions... The Funny Gang-Meets We Had At Each Of Our Homes... Our parents knew us....

Best Gang Meets were Athipathis Bday...Last Year..... Priya's Home In Between The Sem Meet And Sam's Bday... This Year Tha First Time We Guys Met Out....My Personal Favourites.... :)

Now I'm Gonna Go Zooming To Each One Of Them, their Personalities... And My Relations With Em :)


Firstly... Sowmya... A Girl Whom I Still Respect For Her Affinity And Affection for her mum... She could do anything for her :) Her Mum Is A Disciplinarian... A Strong Lady... Anyways... :) She Is A Sweetie-pie... Nice... Head-high... Very studious.... Tall cute girl.... Good At Difficult situations.... Nice Attitude... Trustable....She Neva Hurts Anyone....:)
Negative Traits is she could be easily influenced.... I Always Felt So Baby... Get Hurts Easily.... :)
My Relationship With Her Just Has Got Lots Of Ups And Downs.... :) But I cherish The Ups Baby... I Completely Respect Her Opinions And She Does The Same With Me .,.. But We Differ A Lot... :) And I Love It Also :)
All Those Terrace chats and remember that tirupathi laddo... which we people were scraping with spoon to get Scrambles of it And Guys Completed In A Jiffy!!! :D

And The Reunion Of 12-B1 :D second comedy That day :) And Remember The Times When We Used To Sit Next To each Other... Physics Book Uh kondu varama... Chemistry book uh open panni vechu comedy panitu... And how we used to race to tell answers first.... :D

I Seriously Feel Like Crying... Sigh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Priyadharshini... Is A Genius... At Maths And Almost At Everything (almost :D) As she always says I'm Born Close To Where Ramanujam Was Born...lol Mebbe thats why... Enga gang la mass entertainer than pri than.... Guys Have A Hell Lot Of fun At Her expense.... In Fact Teasing Her Is Quite Cute... Coz She gets Irritated Easily :D

To Say About Her... She IS One Person Who Is Oriented Exactly Towards What She wants... She Knows That And Keeps Working Towards That... She IS Witty, Chirpy, Lively, Humourous... Vijay Fan :P ... The Best Thing About Priya Is That She Doesnt Force Her Views On Others.... And Lets Everyone Live Their Life Their Way....And Yeah The Way She Walks Tall And Strong Symbolising girl-power sometimes.... :)

And Yeah... She is The slowest eater You Will Ever find... And I Tease Her a Lot For That... :D
U remember my comment If Ur fiancée takes You Out for candle-lit dinner he will have To Move from there after having morning coffee only ...lol When We complete our desserts she sits with the starters... but now u r improving, I must say...lol

Negative traits... Quite On one side That she doesn't force anyone with her views... She doesn't tell it mostly.... :)

Best Of Times Are When I Saw Pasanga film with you... The CCD meet with bro... She IS Still one Of the few people On Whose shoulders I Tend To Cry One... I Don't Tell You But I Miss You A Lot... I Really really really Do :'(

Her Mom is someone whom I like A lot... :) I Haven't told You This Too :)


Athi Is A Great Friend Of Mine.... We Fight A Lot.... Really A Lot :D That Too Damn serious Never Silly... But the Funniest Thing Is We Forget Everything And Talk As If Everything Is Normal...

He Is Good At Sports.. And Nowadays Good At Studies... :D Absolutely Caring And Totally dependable At Timess...... Very good dancer... And Yeah You Have A Good Dressing-Sense seriously :)

Your Presence In My Life... Was Like Those Who Get stranded In A Crowd... Supportive, Close Yet Never Really Obvious... Yet I Now Know You Mean A Lot As A Friend....

Avana neriya asinga paduthiruken... still I Don know Why He Still Considers Me As His Friend... He was the one guy who felt bad for me leaving chennai... He was the one guy Who Considers me good at planning things... He Was The Guy Who Planned A Surprise Party Before I Left To Hostel... He Was The One Guy Who Took rights To Tease Me Which Even No Girl Dared :D

He Is Immature At Times... At Times You Feel He is Nuts.... But He Is The Best Friend... Who Knows Exactly What To Do When And What Not To Do... :)

Both of Us Share The Same Negative... Temper...lol...

Best Times Where Again During His Birthday Again... And Yeah Once When I Came To Your Home And Your mum Told That She Was Going To Teach You Cooking.... :P Sorry To Put This In Here... M Gona Get A Thrashing I Guess :D

And His Mum Is One Of the Best Cooks... :D
You Are One Of The Great Guys Ive Ever Met Keep Rocking :)
The two great souls.... Who Are the closest to me :) For Now And Forever.... :)

Uthra priya... I've already written a whole blogpost about her....
She Is Cute... She Has Got A Killer Smile... She Is Silent To The Whole World... With A Great Exposure And Great Sense Of Fashion, Quite Creative.....
A Shy Smile, Beaded Jewellery... Skirts Or Kutis... A Big Handbag... Cute Looks Are The Trademarks Of My Girl....
She Is Supportive... Someone Who I trust A Lot... A Hell Lot... I can Read Her Very Very easily.... :)
All Those Times In My Life... When I Went Ahead Fearing I Would've none When I Turned Back... U Were There Amidst All The Mist There You Were As A Strong Sun... Shimmering In My sky....

Concern... What Actually Concern Means Is Something I Learnt After Knowing You.... The Times When You Stood By My Side... Said That Everything Would Be Fine... Cleared All My Insecurities... washed All My Fears And Worries... I'm Just Too Grateful And Thankful.... :)

The Best Times... Where Should I start... Those Times When At 6 In The Eve With A Hungry Stomach Walking Out of physics lab we used to gaze at evening sky... or those when you and me... sitting in terrace discussing about psychology and character... Or The Times When Now I come To Your Home telling About How Silly I felt Trichy Was.... Or The Times When We Used To Go Shopping... Or For The First Time In My Life... When i Broke Down Hugging You And Crying....

Or ... The Time You Came Over To celebrate My B'day When Dad Got Heart Attack And I was Shattered On the inner When People Saw Me On The Exterior And Said That I Was Damn strong... But Only I Knew I Couldn't Break... At Least For mum's Sake I Had To Be Strong.... :(

Anyways... Now That Everything And Everyone Is fine... I Can Brush The Last Drop Of Tear That Is Running Down My Cheek....

You Are An Angel.... Disguised As A Friend For Me.....

Last... Yet Not The Least......

Sam... I Dont Know What To Say About You Or Where To Start.... :)

He Is intelligent, Smart, Outdoorish.... Easy-Go-Lucky Yet A Determined Guy... Appreciates People Openly And Criticizes Even More Openly..lol... Who hates People Guessing About His Character (including me...lol) Coz he thinks he is mysterious....

And In Fact He Is..... :()

The Best Thing About Him is He Is One Of Those Guys Who stands By You Anytime You Want... Either Good Bad... He Encourages People.. He Understands Situations And Me... He Is The Only One Who Understood What Are The Practical Difficulties I Would Have As A Single Girl... Helped Me With It.. Gave me Confidence to soar around....

Our relationship For starters was very very professional.. The Automobile I Dealt with Was His favourite... And I Had A Strong passion For Medicine... It Followed With Everyday discussions About The Subjects... We Aren't nerds Mind You.. :D But There Was A Fascinating Urge.... Half of the people who know him wont beleieve that this is sam... Probably would disagree with me... But This is him.... He IS Too Oriented Towards stuffs More than Any Guy I've Ever Met...

And Yeah One More Thing was.... In Our Gang... Only Two Hostelers So The Backdrop And Life At Hostel Was Also One Of the Major Discussions... We Couldn't say it to anyone... I couldn't let my mum worry... He Gave an ear to every word I spoke... I Sometimes Really Wonder How I Would've Managed In Hostel without You da....
People got busy in their college ...life became hell... everyone had got their gang in college... It seemed useless to come to home at a point coz no one seemed To be there.... In All Those Times... His Words were the only thing That Made me move ahead....

Sigh.... So Much Serious Talks.... :D
Lets Move On To Lighter things :D

Sam's Biggest negative trait was that it is difficult for him to trust anyone... He Doesn't even trust me... Till Today... I Still don't know why And Yeah.. He Is Too Secretive.... :D

He Is Blunt... He Makes Me face All Those Truth From Which I wanted To Run Away.... Yet Its good... But Sometimes Hurts :)

But yeah today...I Can predict what goes through his mind... how he feels about people... His Family.. Our friends... :)

Best Times Were Definitely During The 12th holidays... When He Came Home Once... As He Had Work In School... :) And A few Days Ago... And Phone Calls Mostly, I think... :)

I Really Don't Know How To Conclude This Dude... lol... You Know M Not Good At Ending Things.. ( Ok.. Thats Enough Now... Stop Smiling x-( )

Anyways You Are A Gem Of Person... And I'm Glad I Know You... :)

These Are the people... Who Mean A Lotttttttt To Me....
Life Would've Been Worst If I Had Never Met You Guys....
I Love You Guys A Lot And I Miss You People Right Now.....





Thus nature has No love for solitude...And always leans, as it were, on some support...And The sweetest support found is the most intimate friendship....

With warm Regards,
Sti.....
:) :)










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