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All my posts are based on some conceptions... well, people love o categorise others... Its a human tendency... Some do it as simple as say... tall or short? right or wrong? good or bad? up Or down?

I Categorise as::

yea folks... Its about psychology again! :D This must mostly not be a new topic for you... its an age old confusion.. Heart Or Brain??
So what does my topic actually mean?
Some people live in their worlds, some people live in this world :P
Some people do what they "feel", some people do what they "think"
For Some
Problems means "a Personal stress", Others Problems means "professional Inability"
And thus:
Some live by their heart And some by their Brain... :)
Of course to do some research work on this before i could actually quip what I felt....
I read this passage...

When the heart is listened to, it sends a signal to the brain (an afferent nerve current that goes up) and it goes to the brain. It tells the brain what to do. Now, we know what a tussle that can be when we are going back and forth, back and forth. When we become aware of the fact that we are doing it, that is the key - ah-ha! Here I am. My heart is saying I want to do this in this situation and my mind is saying such and such; then we can stop ourselves and examine what we are doing and why we are doing it. That is why I say it is a practice because if people really want to ingest this and take it in and begin to do it, it is going to be something that happens every moment of every day. You are going to catch yourself looking at something and doing something by rote rather than allowing the brain to receive new information and trying something new on for size. Take babysteps. Don't go out and do something like quit your job because that is what your heart is telling you for the very first thing you are going to do.

So how many of you agree to this...??

Is It True that our hearts and brains are perfectly coordinated?

Do we do everything After consulting both....???

Think A Minute....

Jus Close Your Eyes...

The Last Time You Attended An Interview (or say college councilling)... Did You Ever Feel That The Job Was Going To Be Yours... Did You Have An Emotional Thought?

And Secondly...

The last Time You Told a guy/girl that you like them.... did you ever ever think about what you were hinting... And if that was practically possible??


neverrrr... No... we dont !!!

We Never Integrate Both... THey Both Act Separately.... When We Talk About Professional Things... We Think That Since It Involves Education.... It Just Means Brains... NO Heart...

Completely Wrong...

Have You Ever felt that an engineer stared at his medical counterparts books and felt" reading about human anatomy is better than that of machines anatomy?" "If I could win an elocution competition why should i not be a lawyer,... Y am I Engineer????"

Millions of Questions Running In Millions Of Minds!!!!!!!!


Feel.... You Didnot have the feeling... Feeling that you were an engineer... you never imagined yourself to be one.... Cuz so much worried about your ability... You were so much worried about whether or not you would get it... Rather than whether you raelly want it....

like this story:

Once there was this kid sitting on the lawn of his home... He saw many kids on the road who were playing and really wanted to be with them and enjoy... But couldnt... he was a rich kid... And they were labourers descendants... Hierachy mattered for both! they couldn't afford to lose that... And once when the rich kid say the labourers dip raw ice in colored syrupy water and call it an Ice-Cream... He was so tempted and went and took one..

He was The Type Of Kid Who Never Ate chocolate Ice-Creams... Without sauce and chips... :P And thus he tasted and spat and on the floor....

Moral: Most of the times people do things just cos others do... Not because they really want... :)


getting back to our story :P

that way people never feel what they want and what they don't... :) Brains are Good in this way... I really appreciate... But Remember Dont Do SO Much For something you don't want... :D

Regarding the other half of the story...

This ones got to be the Best story to explain what I want to...

She was my friend... Not very close... Yet Not very far.. I still remember those moments when I Attended her marriage ceremony!

He was a guy... Of course a guy... Who was very hi fi... Like techie... An electrical engineer wired ina ll wrong sense,... too matrialistic to appreciate things around him.....

She was a girl... For whom Imagination meant world.... Appreciating others talents and beauty meant lifer :)

And when they met....


She came to me running... Saying that he was the best guy... He loved her a lot... He had told her so! She meant how could that not be true!!! I told her to stick to the ground and not fly high... She cried and said... That I was Jealous of her... Her Best Friend suddenly was no more! Seems No guy Would ever Love me.,.. And That Way I Had A Reason to Be Jealous! Little was I hurt By Her words... All The More I felt Sorry... Sorry for her...

And sitting in the marriage aisle... still my mind was vividly picturising those moments...

Initially, things did go on well.... They hanged out a lot... And she Tried a lot to impress him with her poetry and looks... he tried a lot to say her about what he was going to invent and what he was planning to do in it...

Little that the guy know that the girl wanted him to appreciate her looks... not talk About science!

Little that the girl knew that the guy wanted the girl to assist him in his work... And Not Behave in silly way!

And know what is the most funniest and ironic thing...


And today she had completely gone over him... Marrying someone else.... :)

Well, happy for her i thought :)

Get up people.... Story over...

So the point is though both were intrested in each other... they never reallly thought if it was worth practically.... Though A guy can be practically can make head spin! :)

Solution lies in applying your brain.... Obviously...

So Do You Live By Your Heart Or Brain.....?

Soon to be decided in the posts to come :)


Sti :)

And This Post...

Is Only For Those Who Are Purely Single....
Dedicated To My Childhood Friend... Who Keeps Asking When He Will Find Her Find his Perfect

So Relations A Beautiful Word... Real Beauty... And In This Post Its All About... Love, Commitment And Life :)

Before Proceeding further A few points To Be Understood : : :
1. I'm Single :D Implying That The Post Is Not Out Of "Experience" :D
2. M Interested In psychology... Mebbe thats y Im writing this :)

So Lets Begin.... :)

Love Is A Beautiful Word... Meaning Affection... All Of Us Feel Drawn Towards People Due To Their Behavior Attitude... Or Looks... Mostly... There is No Reason.... :D

Soo.... How Do You... Know That They Are The One?

1. How Do I Impress The Girl....
There Is No Question Of Impressing A Girl... If She Truly Loves You... She Would BE Impressed With Everything That You Do... Even With the Way U Wish Her A Good Morning... By The Way You Speak... Your Thoughts.... Everything!
So The Best Way To Impress is Be Yourself... Coz thats the best thing you can do.. No one else can play your role... like you do right... And For their sake dont change yourself people... Thts the worst thing possible... You cant act like what you dont have... As the proverbs goes....
"Don't change yourself for something which is not meant to happen"
And If the girl is not your miss perfect and you keep changing yourself For the fact that they must like you... Ultimately You Would get confused About what you really are..... :P :D So Be Static... If She Really loves You She Must Love You The Way You are....

2.How Will Love Come In My Life:
Well... I'm In Psychology Not astrology To Predict this... :D It happens At The Right Time...
the Thumb Rule is :
"Dont Push It Too Hard, If It Is Meant To Happen It Will Happen..."
The Thing Is When You Feel You Are About To Get The Girl, Jus Ask Yourself the Following Questions : :

2. Will This Be Possible Practically? ( If No. Leave It Asap.... Coz If U Cant Leave It now, You can't Leave it Years After...... And Remember Things Don't Change With Time.... If It Has No Future, Wind It Up)
3. Am I Ok With Her Way Of Living? ( Her Attitudes, Her Profession..... Its More Imp About Her Profession :) Hope You Get It :D)
4. So What Difference Is It Going To Make In My Life Right Now, If At All She Agrees? ( Remember the more difference it Makes The More Headache You Are Going To Have... Things Must Be Normal... You guys May Think That I'm Unromantic... But This Is What I Call Being Practical... )
5. What Do We Guys Want From Life... ? ( Fun Wild N Exciting life Or Jus A Secure One)
6. How Are My Parents Going To Take It? (must be seriously considered)
3.Fine... She Agreed What Does She Expect now???
Now comes the bigger part... She agrees... :) How to make her happy... Depends on what category Your girl Really Is : :
1. Fun Loving frank Outdoor Types :
These type of girls, dont actually like their guys flirt continuously... A sudden Unexpected Comment... Amidst Their gang Would Make them Feel Good... A Few Of Them Even Adore PDAs... A Few Are Dead against It....
2. The Cute Nerds:
Handling them can be quite difficult... Coz their mood swings a lot... :P The best Way To Handle Them Is Appreciate their professional skills....
:D ok ok... U mus be knowing How To Handle Them... Jus Appreciate Looks.... :)
4.The Real Good Girls:
I don't Mean The Rest Are Not Good... I Mean That These Are the Sorts Who Handle Both Professional And Personal Lifes Equally... Jus listening To them Would Be More Than Enough.... :)
5. The Shy Dreamers:
For Them World Lies in Fantasy... So Prove Yourself To Be Her Prince Charming :D

4.So What About Meeting?

How Often Must We Meet... This Is A Bizarre Question...
1.if You Both Share A Workplace... Then There Is No Real Problem...
2.If You Both Live in The Same City... Then Make It Up say Once in A Fortnite,,,
3. If U Both Live In Different Cities... Hmm... Sigh!
Then Only You Have To Work It Up... :)

5.What Should I Not Do?
This is the Most Important part... What Should You Not do...
1. Never Mock The Girl When She Is Really Upset... Never Ever Do That...
2. Trust Your Girl... Especially If You Share A Workplace... She Cannot Do Everything With You...
3. When A Girl Says About Her Difficulties... Don Be An idiot And Offer Her Solutions... She Knows The Solutions... She Just Wants You To Give A Comfortable Shoulder...
4.Respect her Opinions... Even If They Dont Agree With Yours... Be Polite in Saying...
5. Don't Ever Be Rude To Her... Just Bcoz... Your Day Is Not Good :'(
6. And The Magic Word Reassurance ... reassure her that No Other Girl Can Ever take her place in Your Life... And She IS Unique... :) :'(
7.Girls CAn Sometimes Be Stupid... :D Jus Stay cool... :P

How Much Ever You Dream No Relation Can Ever Be Perfect....
Life Is Just How Much You Soar Through Such Imperfections... :)

The End Of First Year .....

How Cool Does That Sound....:D
Yeah People Am No Longer A fresher.....
And Now,
On this Beautiful Rainy Morning....
I Sit Back To Type....
How Much Life Has Changed!!

Life Always teaches You The Worst Of lessons at the best of times... I Must Say My Life This Year... Was An Ideal Teacher.... But Definetly Not A Good One... Definetly Not... Life Dint Sit And Explain Me Things... It Slapped Me Hard And Made Me Understand.....

A Few Beautiful Realisations I Got This Year.... A Few Wonderful Lessons...
Which I Sincerely Hope, Becomes A Good Post In here......
And Thus I Begin :)

Soo... What Did I learn... psychology... The way People behave... What You Call As "folk psychology" My Fondest Passion... Ive Always been Up Analysing Peoples Minds... Some Appreciated It... And I Always Thought I could Categorise People I meet...
Yeah... My Theory Was Completely blown off! :D This year In My Life I met People Whom I thought Would Never Meet.. The Sorts, Who I Dont Understand.. I Mean Guys... What Do You Expect Out Of Life?? A Piece Of Bread And Butter... Or Something Much Better? :D
A Gang Of Weirdos.... Thinking That They Are mature... But The Worlds Worst Kids... I Dont Mean They Are Innocent.. They Are Stupid!!

And The Next One... A Professor... And His Profession... His Passion.. The Only Person Whom I Truly Respect In My College... Introducing, Assistant Head Of Department... Department Of Mechanical And Automobile Engineering.... Dr.Chandrasekhar. My Engineering Mechanics Faculty.... The Way He Teaches Is Awesome!!!! I Could Die To Attend His Classes... A Salute To Your Brains And Yourself sir :)

And Next One The Professional Aspect... My Seniors... One For Whom Formality Should Be The First Name... And Another For Whom Casual Attitude Must Be The First And Thanks To You Two... Now I Know Exactly How To Behave As A Senior And How Not To Behave :D Mostly How Not To Though! :)

And The Next My Roomies... Somethings I Did Learn From You Guys! To Be Frank It Seems Strange Though... the Day I Met You Guys... Even In My Vaguest dreams And Devilish Nightmares... I Never Expected Folks Of This Sort :D Im Frank... But You Guys Proved Me Wrong To Some Extent... Possessiveness I Knew That.... The Pros N Cons.... :) ;)

Next The Auto-Techies... :D Technically, I Always Thought That I Was Not Fit Enough To Take Automobile... :D But After I Met You Guys... I Know That I'm Fit Enough :) Made Some Friends... I Guess In My Department... Friends Are Not There Exists A Strange Bizarre Relation With You Guys... You Rock In The Real Sense !! ^-^

And The Other Department Counterparts... :P
Electronics And Communication Engineering :
I Learnt From You Guys that You Are Not Of The Worst Sort.... There Are People Worse That You In This College.. I Knew That In The Second Semester :D
P:S My Longest Seminar... This Year... :) Amplitude Modulation... :D And I Can Still Hear The Echo Of The Claps... And The Unexpected Smile From Someone... :)
Electrical And Electronics Engineering:
Well.... Ohms law And Kirchoff's law... And Crap Circuits :D Except That I learnt An Important Lesson :
1. Appearances Are Deceptive... The One Who Reads Is Not Going To Score...
The One Who Snubs You... Has No Idea Who You are!!
2. No Matter How Much Ever You Try To Drop Hints... Some People Can Never Stop Disturbing Others :D
3. Some People Run Behind The "Perfect Perfection" And Forgetting How Much They Are Really Worth Feel They Are Really Miserable...
4. Possessiveness Has Both Positives And Negatives... Mostly Negatives :)
Computer Science And Engineering:
Press The enter key properly man... C'mon We Really Don Have An Idea Where You exist.... :D
Information Technology:
The Guys Who Truly Keep Up To Their Department jobs :D Who Flirt In The College...So That It Can Be Helpful In The IT Companies... No Offence meant,,,
Civil Engineering:
The Only Department Which I Like In My college Apart From Mine... :)
Pharmaceutical Engineering:
Medicine Making Isn't Life... Money Making is... You Guys Made Me Appreciate Talents In Others... And Helped Me A Lot :) :) Thanks :)
Petrochemical And Mechanical:
I'm Not Much In With Both depts. All I Know Is one Makes The World Run On Wheels And The Other Fuels It :D

This Was All On The Professional Part.... Moving To Personal... :)

Relations... Commitments... So Many People Going For Such things... So Many People Who Asked My Help.. :) :P I Did not Get Any Idea.. How To About How To Handle Such Things...
I Really Got Ideas How Not To!!!! :D

And the next... I Learnt That At One Fine Day... Even You Will Have To Welcome Your Own Parents... You Have Grown Up When, You Will Find Yourself Not Shyly Walking Behind The Back.. But Warmly Welcoming Them From The Front.... :) N Dats Life :) :)

And The Last One From me In this Blog....
The Only Thing I Regret Now : : :

This Year I Was Very Frank To People... I Trusted People... And I Thought They Trusted Me Too... Coz They Stood By My Side When I Wanted Them To... They Listened To Me When I Wanted To... They Were With me All Through The Sun And Rain.... All Through My Shine And Pain... And When I Wanted Reassurance.............
Things Got Over... :)

So Hoping For A Wonderful Second Year...
Sti :)

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