To All The People....
Who Have Got Their Guy/Girl...
And Doesnot Know How To Keep Up Their Magic :)
Soo....
Finally Dispelling all Uncertainties... Worries... And Fulfilling Your cherished dreams... You get Your soulmate...
Dedicated to my Geek Friend... Prem Bharath.. This One Is Definetly For You Dude :)
Congratulations!!! :) :)
(P:S U Donno How Lucky U Are !!! ;) )
So Next The Biggest Thing For Every guy is... How Do I Prove that When I Promised her.. I Meant it.... When I said That She Would Be Happy I Meant That I Had Jubilance In Store For her... In My Heart In My Life.... :)
1.In The Initial stages Of your Commitment, It Wouldn't be a big problem... You guys are new to each other... and are ready to experiment your relation... So You talk and chat about each others intrest, life, family.. And What Not?!
( Remember guys... If You Are Not Meant To Be Together, Girls Find It Out At This Stage.... :) Thus Most Break-ups Happen At This Stage )
2. The Next thing... Getting actually close.. complementing each other... Calling each other by cute names... the increased concern of the girl... a million times saying I Love You... lol :D
3.Hanging out with your girl... (remember if she is ur gf... introduce her as gf only... especially to other girls... otherwise await hell that day) And Spending time On Long drives... Travelling alone.... loving nature together.....
4.By now, U would've had an idea of what she likes and what she doesnt... A Small fights One or two, Might Have even happened....
Remember to note how your girl reacts after u apologise and how she is without you.. during a fight and even before and after that..... :) (Ill say later how 2 interpret)
5.And Then U Guys How much ever Perfect you may be... End Up Making A Big Mistake...
Generally, One Of These:
# U Werent really angry... but under some emotional swing did say something very bad... And end up hurting her....
#You ended up being caught by their parents in public... You Denied knowing her...
#Many girls are not comfy with hugs and holdings.. When She ws frank, You Did not like...
#She suddenly feels that this is not meant to be.. You guys are trying hard to make it happen, its not happening naturally....
# She Feels Insecure, Jealous, Or really possesive....
# She Gets a Complex... Inferiority or superiority... whatever!!!!
#You were so Involved in love that You forgot to take care of profession....
#She feels she can never satisfy you... Or keep You Happy!
#You Spoke Bad About her...She Came To Know About it... And Was Shattered...
( P:S Mostly when you guys end up in gangs and start discussiong abt ur respective girls... U Can Neither Support Your girl.. You will Be Called as a love-dog by rest of guys... nor leave her... you will be doing wrong to her that way... generally avoid discussions to be safe... )
#Or Simply She Is Bored! Lolzz
Soo....
The Magic In Your relation is gone obviously!!!!
Remember (I Never believed so myself... Until recently ) In true Love Sparks Fly.. Lol..
So How Do You Keep Your love story uptight....??
In A Way .. Words would help a lot... when it comes to girl... they never forget what you spoke and how you made them feel...
#Rekindle the spirit... tell her how you felt when you first touched her.. when you first met her... "when the first time i saw/did......"this Phrase always helps...
#tell her how good she is... and why she is special....
# take her out without letting her know abt the plan...
# When she is sobbing continuously and telling u to leave her for good... Jus Give her a Tight hug...
# when she is upset on account of your act, say mea things about yourself... she will agree with the first, hear the second and obviously stop the third..lol
#Once In A While When She Least Expects Give her gifts And Visits....
#talk about everything btw... many people don't do this.. Just Flirting And Moving around together... is Not Love... And You Are not A Kid...
Remember your girl friend isn't a shiny new toy, so that you can show around to people proudly... Yeah, You CAn do That.... definetly not a bad idea.. But don't make her feel like a thing... Tell Her What Your World is... Describe your day.. The people you meet.. The Things You Do... The Things You Liked... The Things You did not like...
Like describe a sunset or chirping of birds.. Aww Percy I Miss You... I Really Do :(
Sigh... This Is More Than Enough Even If You Don't Flirt!!!!!!!! She Must Feel That She Is A Part Of Your World... Never forget to do this... In the Long Run, She Would Feel Awesome.. And Naturally She would get reassurance And Faith in you... And She Would get the feeling that no one knows more about her than u :) :)
And Remember only you two know what Is Special amongst you.. Keep The flame alive.. how much ever I Say Only You Can Keep Doing things.. And You Know What Can Be Done Top Keep Your Girl Happy..!!!
Love, Is Just A Part Of Your Life...
She, Is Just A Part Of Your world...
Never ever forget that.... Or else.. You will end up making yourself feel miserable and spread your misery to the girl... :)
Regards,
Messi :)
M Back To Life... :)
