And This Post...
Is Only For Those Who Are Purely Single....
Dedicated To My Childhood Friend... Who Keeps Asking When He Will Find Her Find his Perfect Girl..lol
So Relations A Beautiful Word... Real Beauty... And In This Post Its All About... Love, Commitment And Life :)
Before Proceeding further A few points To Be Understood : : :
1. I'm Single :D Implying That The Post Is Not Out Of "Experience" :D
2. M Interested In psychology... Mebbe thats y Im writing this :)
So Lets Begin.... :)
Love Is A Beautiful Word... Meaning Affection... All Of Us Feel Drawn Towards People Due To Their Behavior Attitude... Or Looks... Mostly... There is No Reason.... :D
Soo.... How Do You... Know That They Are The One?
1. How Do I Impress The Girl....
There Is No Question Of Impressing A Girl... If She Truly Loves You... She Would BE Impressed With Everything That You Do... Even With the Way U Wish Her A Good Morning... By The Way You Speak... Your Thoughts.... Everything!
So The Best Way To Impress is Be Yourself... Coz thats the best thing you can do.. No one else can play your role... like you do right... And For their sake dont change yourself people... Thts the worst thing possible... You cant act like what you dont have... As the proverbs goes....
"Don't change yourself for something which is not meant to happen"
And If the girl is not your miss perfect and you keep changing yourself For the fact that they must like you... Ultimately You Would get confused About what you really are..... :P :D So Be Static... If She Really loves You She Must Love You The Way You are....
2.How Will Love Come In My Life:
Well... I'm In Psychology Not astrology To Predict this... :D It happens At The Right Time...
the Thumb Rule is :
the Thumb Rule is :
"Dont Push It Too Hard, If It Is Meant To Happen It Will Happen..."
The Thing Is When You Feel You Are About To Get The Girl, Jus Ask Yourself the Following Questions : :
1. Is She The One ? ( ASK YOUR BRAIN NOT YOUR HEART... HEARTS LIE, BRAINS DONT:))
2. Will This Be Possible Practically? ( If No. Leave It Asap.... Coz If U Cant Leave It now, You can't Leave it Years After...... And Remember Things Don't Change With Time.... If It Has No Future, Wind It Up)
3. Am I Ok With Her Way Of Living? ( Her Attitudes, Her Profession..... Its More Imp About Her Profession :) Hope You Get It :D)
4. So What Difference Is It Going To Make In My Life Right Now, If At All She Agrees? ( Remember the more difference it Makes The More Headache You Are Going To Have... Things Must Be Normal... You guys May Think That I'm Unromantic... But This Is What I Call Being Practical... )
5. What Do We Guys Want From Life... ? ( Fun Wild N Exciting life Or Jus A Secure One)
6. How Are My Parents Going To Take It? (must be seriously considered)
3.Fine... She Agreed What Does She Expect now???
Now comes the bigger part... She agrees... :) How to make her happy... Depends on what category Your girl Really Is : :
1. Fun Loving frank Outdoor Types :
These type of girls, dont actually like their guys flirt continuously... A sudden Unexpected Comment... Amidst Their gang Would Make them Feel Good... A Few Of Them Even Adore PDAs... A Few Are Dead against It....
2. The Cute Nerds:
Handling them can be quite difficult... Coz their mood swings a lot... :P The best Way To Handle Them Is Appreciate their professional skills....
3.Make-Up-Meniacs:
:D ok ok... U mus be knowing How To Handle Them... Jus Appreciate Looks.... :)
4.The Real Good Girls:
I don't Mean The Rest Are Not Good... I Mean That These Are the Sorts Who Handle Both Professional And Personal Lifes Equally... Jus listening To them Would Be More Than Enough.... :)
5. The Shy Dreamers:
For Them World Lies in Fantasy... So Prove Yourself To Be Her Prince Charming :D
4.So What About Meeting?
How Often Must We Meet... This Is A Bizarre Question...
1.if You Both Share A Workplace... Then There Is No Real Problem...
2.If You Both Live in The Same City... Then Make It Up say Once in A Fortnite,,,
3. If U Both Live In Different Cities... Hmm... Sigh!
Then Only You Have To Work It Up... :)
5.What Should I Not Do?
This is the Most Important part... What Should You Not do...
1. Never Mock The Girl When She Is Really Upset... Never Ever Do That...
2. Trust Your Girl... Especially If You Share A Workplace... She Cannot Do Everything With You...
3. When A Girl Says About Her Difficulties... Don Be An idiot And Offer Her Solutions... She Knows The Solutions... She Just Wants You To Give A Comfortable Shoulder...
4.Respect her Opinions... Even If They Dont Agree With Yours... Be Polite in Saying...
5. Don't Ever Be Rude To Her... Just Bcoz... Your Day Is Not Good :'(
6. And The Magic Word Reassurance ... reassure her that No Other Girl Can Ever take her place in Your Life... And She IS Unique... :) :'(
7.Girls CAn Sometimes Be Stupid... :D Jus Stay cool... :P
7.Girls CAn Sometimes Be Stupid... :D Jus Stay cool... :P
How Much Ever You Dream No Relation Can Ever Be Perfect....
Life Is Just How Much You Soar Through Such Imperfections... :)
Regards...
Sti.....
7 comments:
I ve just got 1 word to say 'terrific'
Thank You da...
Gud one!!! But whoz tzt guy??!! :P
A childhood frnd n ur enemy...lolzzzzzz
Good....
awesome :)
thnks ppl :)
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